As a cancer patient, I needed distraction | Letters

The last thing I wanted after I was diagnosed was people trying to ‘help’ by sharing their experiences, writes Anne Hay

Mike Addelman’s article (Why I live in dread of another cancer confessional, 18 April) accurately describes the non-physical aspects of cancer diagnosis, which can be harder to cope with than the physical. I too noticed a proliferation of cancer stories, both confessional and fictional, during my treatment last autumn. It’s an acutely stressful time for patient and family. I got by taking each day and each part of the treatment as it came. I discouraged anyone who tried to “help” me by sharing details of their treatment. It was enough just to confront my own.

A good book or film or radio programme could bring an hour or so of blessed distraction, but all too often the plot would involve cancer, or the subject would come up in a news programme again and again. I kept thinking: “Scriptwriters, there are other illnesses, go beyond the cliche.”

Continue reading... April 22, 2018 at 10:51PM