My life in sex: ‘We had the hottest sex life – now we follow strict schedules’

The woman trying for a baby

My husband and I had the hottest sex life when we started dating. We were in our late 20s and early 30s, but you’d have thought we were teenagers, doing it every day. This continued after we moved in together a year later. I have always had a “try anything once” attitude, and together we were open to exploring anything that brought us pleasure. Because I was almost 34, 18 months into our relationship we decided to stop using birth control and just “see what happens”.

From that point on, the sex became even more passionate and intense, as we envisioned the life we were potentially creating. It was not only hot, but full of excitement and hope. But after numerous negative pregnancy tests and two miscarriages, we reluctantly moved into the world of assisted reproduction.

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Continue reading... December 01, 2017 at 03:30PM